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DdaisyB's avatar

Great post and food for thought. It has inspired me to write about my relationship with silence.

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Bec's avatar

Thanks Della! Would love to read whatever you write! x

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Julia Oliphant's avatar

oh my i really related to your thought processes especially at the end, but I really just thoroughly enjoyed reading this piece and yes LIFE IS HARD x

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Bec's avatar

Ah thank you! Isn’t it just. 🧡 always nice to know someone follows the same thought process- mine is a jungle I assume no one else understands! 😂

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Jonathan Gourlay's avatar

Hey Bec, I spend a lot of time on the road travelling around my region with work. I have a couple of programs on the radio that I find interesting and sometimes I will listen to a 5 minute news slot.

Mostly I enjoy the silence, like you, I’m quite entertained by my thoughts and conversation dialogues that I have with myself and God. I’m restored by the peace and quiet.

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Bec's avatar

"restored by the peace" - I think that is totally it! thanks Jon, nice to hear from you!

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Bonnie Garvin's avatar

Great piece, Bec. I have to admit while I love silence, I do like the sound of rain. It makes me want to get cozy, maybe take a snooze. The older I get the more I appreciate the absence of sound and noise.

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Bec's avatar

LOVE the sound of rain -- it is something I have missed since living in an apartment - you don't hear it on the roof like you do in a home!

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Emma Kriskinans's avatar

That scientific study! I definitely am not someone who has to be with music, podcast, ‘content’ all the time, but I also find it hard to just ‘be’. One of my favourite ‘quiet time’ activities is just watching people and making up stories about their lives - is this a form of meditation?? 😂

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Bec's avatar

I can't tell if it is meditation or torture some times -- the characters currently living in my head are starting to take over!

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Alke Groppel-Wegener's avatar

I like the quiet, too. And often use my noise cancelling headphones to just have quiet on a plane, rather than play music. If this is weird, let's be weirdos together!

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Bec's avatar

Kindred spirits!

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